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Travel · Feb 23, 2026

Motorcycles and Cows

In India, the many legal rules get subsumed by the one real rule: you can do anything on the road, just don’t crash. I was thinking about that one big rule when I saw the motorcycle cut in front of me, and I knew I was fucked.

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Poetry · Dec 8, 2025

why do we live, and playing with forms

We take another step through another room in the museum,  soft eyes take in another work on another wall.

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Poetry · Sep 30, 2024

There are worse epitaphs to earn than one

of bold Phaethon, but also better, victory won.

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Life · Mar 9, 2024

Reading for Kelly’s Wedding —  March 18, 2023

I read a really wonderful little book recently, all about how to be good at being in love

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Travel · Oct 26, 2023

Confidence is a funny thing.

Confidence is a funny thing. Yesterday I took the Istanbul metro for the first time in order to reach a kebabi that I had been recommended to try. Trips like that are full of unknowns. First, an untrodden route to the station. Then, the litany of onboarding tasks: pilot the machine from Turkish to English, purchase a metro card, fight with the machine to accept your currency like you’re an overzealous dinner date insistent on paying. Now, confirm the correct line, wait uncomfortably in the crow

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Poetry · Aug 9, 2023

january, february, march

So much can change in three months, long enough for days to blur together, if you don’t stop to count them.  Is it twenty Saturdays…

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Travel · Jan 17, 2022

Conversations with myself in CDMX (april ‘21)

I write more when I travel. There are the same number of hours in a Saturday in Los Angeles as there are in Mexico City, but the words seem…

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Travel · Jan 17, 2022

Quintonil (4/26/21)

Tonight I had dinner at Quintonil. I’m told that this is the 24th best restaurant in the world. My meal was delicious, as you’d expect. I…

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Life · Dec 28, 2021

Video letter to a lover first and last met 3 years ago in Singapore

Happy birthday, Athina. I know it’s a bit late, so forgive me, but I couldn’t miss an opportunity to remind you how special you are.

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Life · Dec 27, 2021

Recipe for a fulfilling day (a reminder for my future self) (dec 27 2021)

On a good day, you’re unbothered to wake to the sound of somebody else’s alarm at 530am. Your only protest will be against parting, as you…

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Poetry · Nov 16, 2021

Fuck.

I wrote a haiku

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Travel · Oct 6, 2021

Tonight I got drunk in a cave.

Well, I guess I got drunk before I got to the cave. But things didn’t exactly get better underground.

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Poetry · Sep 20, 2021

Odi et amo,

Jealous Sunday nights that won’t release me into Monday morning.

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Poetry · Mar 14, 2021

The infinite distance between thinking and feeling.

Our thoughts don’t see the opposite shore. Lost over the horizon, we find no answers.

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Life · Nov 2, 2020

It was our first date, or maybe our second.

“You’re a narcissist.” She said it with a smile and no sign of judgement in her eyes. This felt like too true of an idea to have developed…

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Poetry · Sep 1, 2020

the Paris Review (Sep 2020)

She arrives at my door without warning, never totally unexpected, always a pleasant surprise. I welcome her in, barely able to conceal my…

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Poetry · Aug 9, 2020

À trois

The devil invented French to give name to my desire,

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Poetry · Jul 19, 2020

of the ox and the lion,  I am certainly a lion. But I admire the ox, and am grateful for his help.

You can’t force genius but you can set the table for it and invite it in.

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Poetry · Jul 11, 2020

imagine the river of humanity spread out before you

in one direction is splayed all people that exist with you in the now

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Life · May 7, 2020

Déjà vu

I rode the motorcycle back in time.

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Life · Apr 14, 2020

We met on a dating app, I don’t recall which one.

It was 9pm on a Wednesday when she asked how my day was and what I was up to. Then:

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Poetry · Apr 3, 2020

Today I ran to the ocean

And I reminded it of who I am,

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Travel · Jan 24, 2020

The train from the airport has released me into Brussels and the beginning of this trip.

Night has set in over Brussels. The old buildings stand taller, preening in the warm glow of the street lamps. I pull my coat close…

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Life · Sep 10, 2019

Sometimes I look around me at the people in the world and think:

“How do you breathe?”

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Life · Aug 9, 2019

Waffles and Whimsy

The short beginnings of a not very long story, inspired by a wonderful phrase turned by my friend, Ambrielle, and a painting of a pig and…

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Travel · Feb 22, 2019

Conversations and reflections from SEA

Snippets of journals, notes and conversations from my solo travels across Singapore, Vietnam, and Cambodia

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Travel · Feb 11, 2019

Saturday, January 26, Green Hope Lodge near Cat Tien National Park, Vietnam

Riding the 150km from Ho Chi Minh City to Cat Tien National Park is one of the more “adventurous” things I’ve ever done. The city offered…

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Travel · Feb 6, 2019

Sunday, January 27, Cat Tien National Park, Vietnam

A short 1km walk from the lodge, the road dead ends at the river, the boundary line of Cat Tien. A $2 fee bought me a ride across on the…

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Poetry · Jan 6, 2019

untitled 1.1.19

I want to enjoy the best that the world has to offer But the world does not owe me anything I must be worthy of the best

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Life · Jan 3, 2019

The Best Version of Me

The best version of me knows that I haven’t met the best version of me yet

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Life · Dec 30, 2018

Buying clothes

Every now and then someone asks me for help dressing better. I tend to give variations on the same general answer, so I thought I’d write…

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Life · Dec 27, 2018

Practicing drawing

Drawing is waaaay outside my natural skillset. I’m enjoying engaging such a different part of my brain.

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Life · Dec 27, 2018

Making a hat for Ambrielle

I tried my hand at crafting to make a birthday gift for my good friend, Ambrielle. She has this great purse and incredible metallic dress…

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Travel · Dec 27, 2018

Austin, Dec 7 2018

Last night I followed the strangest instructions I’ve ever been given.

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Travel · Dec 27, 2018

Austin, Dec 7 2018

Last night I followed the strangest instructions I’ve ever been given.

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Life · Dec 27, 2018

a short story

from Dec 2016  —  at the time I posted on facebook:

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Life · Jan 11, 2016

A dream of waterfalls and tornadoes

I had a dream last night. It was full of waterfalls and tornadoes and the adventures of a young boy. It was one of my better dreams so I…

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Life · Dec 26, 2015

Reflecting on 2015: Frameworks

This morning I found a Kindle Voyage under the Christmas tree and immediately loaded up Tren Griffin’s Charlie Munger: The Complete…

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